A Letter To My Boss Babes


Hey girl,

This is my letter to you, and I hope that it resonates with you in some way….

First of all….

You ARE amazing

You ARE worth it

You ARE exactly where you need to be.

Keep that in mind as you read this letter……

In just a short year ago I was absolutely miserable. I was working a job I hated at an insurance company and was absolutely miserable on the inside. I showed up everyday and did my work with a smile on my face, but as I sat inside my cubicle I couldn’t stop thinking, “why am I here and what else could I be doing with my time right now?”

Then outta nowhere……something happened….


I went into work on a Friday morning with a gut feeling that something wrong was going to happen that day. I had bad anxiety at work and ended up having a panic attack in the upstairs bathroom. My boss yelled at me for being away from my desk, instead of being concerned or recognizing the fact that I just had a bad panic attack and was mentally burnt out. She was more concerned about getting my work doneĀ than she was about my mental health. It was at that very moment that I knew, that this was not the job or place for me. That same day – I QUIT.

And you know what?

It was the BEST decision I made for myself.


Because that experience helped me get out of my comfort zone and finally take a risk on The Boss Diary that was created one month later.

And one YEAR later….

I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I love being a Brand Stylist and I absolutely LOVE each and every one of you who support this blog and my vision!

Its not always easy to step out of your comfort zone and take a risk. I get it. It can be terrifying. But once you do….GIRL…..you begin to find your light.

You begin to flourish into something magical.

If you feel stuck right now…it’s going to be ok. You will NOT be in the same spot forever. Have you ever heard of a self-made successful entrepreneur that hasn’t gone through the worst before they got to the best? Nope. They don’t exist. Because everyone has to go through the real shit. Remember, you don’t GO through life, you GROW through life.

Today I want you to write a love letter to yourself. Talk to the inner you – say its going to be ok, and talk about where you wanna be in the next 3 months or 1 year. Don’t waste time worrying about things that don’t matter. Instead of focusing on the problem, focus on the solution. Stay focused on the greater good and the bigger picture. You got this babe, I believe in you.

Sending all my love to you girl,

Nkay xo



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